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#3 – Spend time with everyone

Try and ensure you spend time with everyone in your family – including your partner, your children individually, and the family as a whole.

Get to know each person in your family as an individual, and it will improve your relationships, communication and happiness.

Its also worth remembering that everyone won’t react to things the same way, and therefore you should be aware of what works for each person.

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#4 – Equal is best

When you have more than one child its so important to show them equal attention. Try and ensure that you give every member of the family equal amounts of your time as much as possible.

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#5 – Focus, Focus, Focus!

When you are spending time with your family, its so important to let them know that they are important.

This isn’t through what you do or what you spend on them – its about giving them undivided attention.

If you are eating at the table – have a no phone policy, if you are reading with one child then do this in a quiet room where you are less likely to have to shout/talk with others and interrupt the story.

Giving this sort of attention to your family will pay dividends in feeling part of a strong unit.

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#6 – Family calendars work!

Ensure your children are aware of whats going on each week – have a family calendar on show somewhere where it will be seen (in the kitchen where everyone has breakfast is a good idea).

If they are aware of busy days etc… they will be able to see why you have to say NO sometimes to things they want to do.

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#7 – Multitask where possible

Even the most time starved families can add some family time into their days if its carefully thought out.

A great multitasking time could be preparing the evening meal. The family can help set the table, cut up veg, cook etc… – and you always get chatting casually when you are in the same room – you never know what you may find out!

I’ve also heard of a great idea that I am going to try when my daughter is a little older – a lady in a magazine was explaining that she always found it hard to go on a run without feeling guilty about taking time away from the family. That was until her son was climbing the walls one day bored – so she suggested he came with her. The running, fresh air, and the fact that they didn’t have to talk meant that she had the best conversation with him that she’d ever had. It took the pressure off. Food for thought…

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#8 – Make memories

Families are strong when they create bonds with each other – and making shared memories is one of the best ways to do this.

Start some traditions in your family – Easter / Christmas / Birthdays are all easy to start with – and your children will start to expect these traditions and look forward to them.

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 #9 – Don’t do it all yourself

Creating family time has to be a joint effort.

If you are chasing your tail constantly with household chores and errands, start to get the family involved in these – so you end up with more time for the fun stuff altogether as well.

This will not only teach your children that a home doesn’t run itself, but it will also teach them responsibility and teamwork – and what could be better than that!

If you explain that getting certain jobs done will allow you to do something with them afterwards, this is often incentive enough for younger children especially.

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#10 – Get organised!

Often we sign children up to classes after school and at the weekends thinking that we are doing the best for them by enhancing and growing their skills etc…

However, becoming a taxi service constantly can take it out of the best of parents!

Getting organised about what is done and when can really help to carve out more time in the weekly schedule for most families.

Can you find classes that coincide in terms of when and where they are? Often a gym can provide classes for different ages in a variety of different choices all under the same roof. Or what about simply finding classes nearer your home – rather than driving so far to a specific one.

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Ask yourself whats important, and you can really get the balance between each persons hobbies, classes and social lives – along with all important family time.

Creating bonds that last a lifetime between siblings and children can be the best skill you could offer your children as they grow up – surely that makes family time worth prioritising?


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  1. Hi! Loved reading your post on making the most of family time. Actually I just returned from a trip to Kashmir, where I enjoyed with my entire family. As we all stay in different parts of India, we ensure that we go for a family vacation of 10-15 days every year. A lot of caring and sharing takes place and the experience is refreshing and enriching, which makes us look forward to the next family holiday.

    Everyone can try this tip and be assured, It is really Fantastic.

    Cheers, Chitra

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